錢先花光,還是命先沒了?:長照4個90歲老人的我,將如何面對老後生活?
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錢先花光,還是命先沒了?:長照4個90歲老人的我,將如何面對老後生活?

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作者: 小梶沙羅  |  繪者: 中島梨絵  |  譯者: 陳嫺若


 
「快點離開吧……」
「我怕我會比他們先死!」
快到退休年紀的我,辭職返鄉照顧4個年齡總共360歲的老人,
這是修行還是懲罰遊戲?

  ★長照時代的第一手現場實記錄!震撼日本書市!
  ★週刊文春、Yahoo!新聞、文春在線、ABEMA Prime 話題發燒中!
  ★一個日本大齡女子的搏命日常,讓人又哭又笑,給予長照者陪伴的勇氣!
 
  ▎在職場打滾多年,從來沒有應付不了的人際問題。想不到,為了長照而辭職返鄉,等著我的,竟是這種比上班還費力的殘酷現實……
 
  自從搬回千葉縣的老家照顧爸媽,連帶姨丈姨媽也凡事依賴我處理,超出預期的殘酷現實,如同一幕幕荒謬劇天天上演,逼著我和4個90歲老人鬥智鬥勇!
 
  失智老爸在颱風停電時,跳針式嚷著要找師傅來修理電視;嫌免治馬桶溫度太低、噴水口對不準屁眼,大發雷霆堅持要換新的──我不是爸的屁股管理員好嗎?
 
  購物狂兼大胃王的老媽,把冰箱塞爆、吃到住院仍一天五餐加消夜;疫情期間阻止她去卡拉OK,竟反嗆我這個吃閒飯的女兒沒資格多嘴。
 
  姨丈的車被擦撞才發現駕照過期半年,有糖尿病不治療、帳戶錢財完全沒管理,而吝嗇成性、把住家堆成垃圾屋的姨媽,永遠只會說:「我不知道。」
 
  這算是修行嗎?還是懲罰遊戲?各種無可奈何的複雜感情,如同岩漿般從心底噴發出來……
 
  ✦✦長照顯然也是台灣面臨的嚴苛課題,「做過照護的人,在喪禮上哭不出來。」因為那是一份只靠漂亮話或親情絕對無法克服的工作。

  作者小梶沙羅以輕快的筆調,描寫沉重的人生,藉以整理抒發自己的感受,並思索超老齡社會的種種威脅:陷入照護破產的解方?政府各項政策、社會保障如何調整?照護者與被照護者怎樣保持最適當的距離?

  笑中帶淚看完本書後,「該如何終老」這個問題值得我們深思。
 
本書特色
 
  ◎ 以笑中帶淚的筆調描寫一個年近60的大齡女子,要去照護四個相加360歲老人家的辛苦和煩惱,讓讀者宛如親歷現場。
 
  ◎ 作者勇敢指出長照的現實問題:金錢和人力!不同於書市其他書籍,此作品以坦白的文字給予照顧者心理上的撫慰、陪伴,知道自己並不孤單。
 
  ◎ 文筆流暢,雖然不是快樂的遭遇,卻在作者幽默的筆調下,讓人讀到欲罷不能。
 
  ◎ 長照的現實一點都不甜蜜,也不如外人所想的只有把屎把尿。看著被照顧者,也會預先想到自己的老後生活,能如何不麻煩別人又過得好,才是最重要的事。
 
  ◎ 作者直言「這是一場看不到終點的錢和命的決鬥」,她從震驚、崩潰到無奈,誠實吐露心情的變化,毫不矯情,非常貼近人心。
 

作者
 
小梶沙羅 こかじ さら

  1958年生於千葉縣。中央大學專職研究所國際會計研究科碩士課程修畢。曾在出版社工作,2016年以處女作《加油!衝啊,日本的女人》出道,其後著有《即使如此,我還是要向前走》、《她令我困惑》,皆備受好評。2019年9月於《現代商業》雜誌刊登照護父母生活的散文,以趣味流暢的筆調,將真實的辛酸點滴描寫得淋漓盡致,並探討人口老化的種種問題,獲得廣大的迴響。

譯者
 
陳嫺若


  日文系畢。曾為出版社日文編輯,目前專職日文翻譯。喜歡閱讀文學,也樂於探究各領域的知識,永遠在翻譯中學習。譯作有《瞄過一眼就忘不了的世界史【商業篇】》、《遠渡來台的日本諸神:日治時期的台灣神社田野踏查》、《無人島生存十六人》、《從謊言開始的旅程》、《60歲使用說明書》等。
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