不否定的教養練習:比稱讚、責備更有效的親子溝通技巧
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不否定的教養練習:比稱讚、責備更有效的親子溝通技巧

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不否定的教養練習:比稱讚、責備更有效的親子溝通技巧: : 2 No. 2 1973NTT CommunicationsAnthony Clucas2010 20082 2MIRANETA 15 40

作者: 林健太郎  |  譯者: 沈俊傑



       ☆ 《不否定的練習》作者林健太郎寫給爸媽的親子溝通心法!
  ☆ 提升家庭的心理安全感,養出自信、自主、自律的孩子!
  ☆ 許峰源│律師作家│、陳志恆│諮商心理師、暢銷作家│──好評推薦!

  爸媽的任何反應,都會影響孩子的自信與性格。
  就從自己開始,終止上一代習慣否定的教養方式!

  有人說,要多讚美孩子,孩子才會有自信。
  有人說,一定要嚴厲管教,否則孩子很容易變壞。
  其實,這兩者都沒那麼重要,真正重要的是「不否定」。

  暢銷書《不否定的練習》作者林健太郎,是輔導超過2萬名領導者的專業教練,同時也是上幼兒園和小學的兩個孩子的父親。他將教練學的溝通技巧帶入家庭,破解各種令爸媽崩潰、困惑的教養現場:

  .面對什麼都說「不想」、「不要」、「不知道」的孩子,怎麼溝通?
  .孩子做什麼都拖拖拉拉,該怎麼解?
  .稱讚就是最好的做法嗎?

  「不否定」,並不是不能責備孩子,而是停止否定孩子的存在與他們重視的事物,也停止忽視孩子的感受、意願和想法。

  運用教練學的引導技巧,養成不否定的習慣,不否定孩子、伴侶,也不否定自己。當家人之間不再否定彼此,你會發現,家庭氣氛變得更好,親子關係、甚至夫妻關係,都會變得更緊密!

  ★ 否定孩子會造成許多不必要的風險,包括:
  「孩子的自我肯定感低落」
  「孩子不再自行思考」
  「孩子會形成負面的自我形象」
  「孩子被迫接受爸媽的想法」
  「家庭失去避風港的意義」

  如果你曾經因為父母習慣性的否定而受傷,
  如果你不希望孩子和整個家庭繼續承受這些風險,
  那麼,這本書一定能幫上你的忙!

  ★ 不否定的教養有哪些好處:
  「可以培養孩子的自我肯定感和自尊心」
  「孩子更有自信,更願意積極挑戰事物」
  「孩子和爸媽的情緒更穩定、內心更從容」
  「家庭氣氛變好,家人之間團隊合作順暢」
  「孩子更願意和爸媽訴說煩惱或商量問題,不再隱瞞事情」
  「長期下來,可以建立良好的家庭關係」

  不否定的好處與效果寫也寫不完!


作者

林健太郎

  不否定專家/領導者培育家
  No.2有限責任公司高階主管教練。國際教練聯盟日本分部創辦人。

  1973年生於東京。曾任職於日本大型玩具供應商萬代、電信公司NTT Communications,因認識日本高階主管教練先驅安東尼.克盧卡斯(Anthony Clucas),決定出國接受專業教練培訓。回國後,2010年開始從事個人教練活動,協助創辦國際教練聯盟日本分部。

  致力於領導者培育。曾受邀替全球最大菸草公司菲利普莫里斯國際超過200名主管進行輔導培訓,擔任法拉利公司的日本認證講師長達8年。輔導超過2萬名日本代表性大企業、外商、新創和家族企業的經營者、領導者。

  以創新的方式推廣教練學,開發「教練忍者的2分鐘教練入門課」,主辦線上沙龍「不否定會話學校MIRANETA」,也計畫開設親子教練學院。

  他將教練實務上的不否定溝通技巧整理成著作《不否定的練習:比讚美、肯定更有效的人際關係法則》,在日本創下銷量超過15萬本的佳績。
 

譯者

沈俊傑


  一介小小譯者。願能如畫家在有限的畫布上,拓出靈感傳來的呢喃,在譯文有限的框架中,拼湊出原文背後的模樣。譯有《不否定的練習》、《40歲,精采人生才開始》等。
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